Approaching Women: Making It Happen...the Right Way, For A Change

Last time we talked about how most men have a much tougher time approaching women than most women think they do.
With that discussion covered, let’s talk about some ways to make some positive introductions happen. Sound good? Thought so.

So what to do? How can men have an easier time approaching women? And ladies, what can you do to make the experience of men approaching you more enjoyable?

Guys:

1) First and foremost, reframe your mind. Approaching a woman should not be seen as a potential competition or power struggle. Instead of pressuring yourself with the need to earn her approval lest you face “rejection”, open each conversation with a genuine interest in finding out whether she is even the type of woman you could get along with. Without a preconceived notion of “wanting her”, the conversation is much more of an evenly matched process. Get it?

2) Realize you do not need any fancy “pickup lines”, and that the best opener is usually a simple “hello”. Proceeding in this manner takes a lot of the pressure of “not messing up” off the table.

3) Imagine that you are talking to someone whom you have already known for years. If you are able to speak this naturally to a woman, you will immediately feel more comfortable with the interaction…and so will she. That can only lead to good results.

4) Realize that women are typically flattered by attention. …But only if you are tasteful and respectful. Follow the previous ideas in this section, and you will be right on track.

5) Know that if she is rude to you, you’ve saved yourself a lot of trouble. Provided that you have made respect a priority, any woman who performs in a manner reminiscent of a “sitcom rejection” as cited above is likely just not a very nice person in general. Since you are viewing the interaction as way of finding out if a woman is someone you could enjoy the company of, the evaluation process is complete. If anyone “lost”, she did. You see how that works? Nice.

Ladies:

1) Drop the stereotypes. Despite what you’ve seen on TV, some guys really have figured out how not to be “cheesy” when approaching women. Think positively when a man approaches you, and avoid projecting the expectation that he is going to be a creep or a player. 2) Realize that only a small percentage of men will have the guts to approach you. Only a select few men are confident enough and have enough leadership skill to boldly introduce themselves to women they don’t yet know. As far as my research goes confidence, leadership skill and boldness are solidly masculine traits that women tend to find irresistibly attractive. With this knowledge, you can see how guys who approach you have already stacked the deck in their favor in several ways.

3) If you aren’t interested, let them down easy. Remember, most guys are not “naturals” at approaching women. So even if he is approaching you, it may have taken a considerable amount of self-preparation to do it. Your attitude in these situations may very well influence him deeply. One really well-placed verbal castration in these instances could literally cause a guy to hang up his game forever. Conversely, if you are friendly and easy-going you could play a major part in building his confidence for future introductions. If you aren’t interested in a guy who has approached you respectfully, a good idea is to tell him you’re flattered but that you have a boyfriend. 4) If you are interested, go for it. I understand that women can also be considerably nervous when approached by a man. Since the guy has been brave enough to talk to you, be brave in return! If you like him, don’t chicken out. Give him your email address if you aren’t quite ready to disclose your phone number.

5) Be approachable. If you are upbeat and display open body language, you are going to get approached more than if you appear rushed, closed, preoccupied and / or downright ornery. Remember, if you easier to talk to, you will be talked to more often.

Having read this article, you are now armed with information that can transform your dating life. Make no mistake; if every man was self-confident enough to approach whatever woman he wanted to, the ladies would be bombarded with interest to an exponential degree. But were that the case, the guys would have exponential competition also, wouldn’t they?

So guys, become one of the few men who realize that approaching women is a natural part of life, and one that will likely bring great joy. Ladies, look forward to men approaching you with the right attitude…and when they do, enjoy the experience!

And oh yes…feel free to smile at us first, ladies. That always brightens a man’s day.

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Want to hear more? Scot McKay is a dating coach in San Antonio, TX and founder of X & Y Communications, a one-stop-shop for dating resources. He is the author of the new book “Deserve What You Want”, and hosts the popular podcast series “X & Y On The Fly”. He may be reached at scot@xandycommunications.net or on the Web at http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/ and http://www.nottooshort.com/ .

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What She Really Means When She Says, "I Want A Man To Protect Me"

I don’t know how many times I’ve heard a woman say she wants to be “protected” by a man.
Stereotypically, I tend to think of a petite little cutie uttering these words, either because she has a genuine concern that lawless thugs are going to be attempting to “whack” her, or because she’d just rather not break a nail fending them off.

Whatever mental picture we have, it’s safe to say that most of us guys assume that a woman is talking about being physically protected from harm by others when she talks like this…thanks, of course, to our manly presence as a deterrent. Sure. Women want a “bodyguard”, right?

Not so fast.

I’ve heard women talk like this who know how to “defend” themselves quite well, thank you. So what’s up with that?

If more of us guys would seek to better understand what drives a woman’s frame of mind here, I think we would be amazed.

Make no mistake, I don’t question that most women would think it’s nice to have a man around when they hit the ATM machine late at night, or something like that. But, let’s be realistic—that’s not the kind of priority a woman is putting near the top of her wish list when it comes to finding a mate.

Look closely at the language a woman uses when she expresses the sentiment of being “protected”. She may phrase it as, “I want him to keep me safe”. “I want to feel secure when he is with me.” Most of the time women are talking about very similar desires—and it goes MUCH deeper than mere physical protection from outside influences.

Yeppers. Women are talking about a more general feeling of “safety” here. They don’t want a “goon” who can beat up people for her, they want to be safe at all times, and in every situation. If this sounds like a formidable plan for a guy to pull off, it is. No worries—I have six simple steps to making a woman feel “protected” that any guy can learn. Learning these should make the process easier for you. That’s why I’m here, isn’t it?

1) Avoid Dangerous Situations

Women want to feel confident that they will get home in one piece from a date. So, guys, if you make a habit of saying, “Uh…hey, watch this!” while behind the wheel on dates, she’s decidedly NOT going to be impressed. Moreover, if she’s rolling up windows and locking doors at stoplights, you probably shouldn’t have taken that “shortcut” through the crime-ridden section of town. You get the idea. This applies to ANY situation that makes her uneasy. It’s up to YOU to make sure they don’t happen…ever.

2) Have things handled

Women want you to have your act together, pardner. If the date is not exactly planned when you pick her up, that’s a strong message that you don’t. Whatever you do, never ask her “where she wants to go” when you pick her up for a date. A woman enjoys a man who can lead, in part because (surprise) it makes her feel secure. Inspire confidence that you can make decisions effectively. The more areas of your life (job, finances, masculinity, emotions, etc.) that you can apply this logic to, the better.

3) Don’t be a creep

I genuinely wish I didn’t have to bring this one up, but…alas…I cannot believe some of the things guys come up with to tell women--let alone the antics they pull--on first dates. Guys, keep it normal, will you?

Sure, turn on the charm and the sense of humor. Feel free to be a “stand out” in all the good ways (as talked about in “Deserve What You Want”). But if you are being downright weird in hopes of pulling this off, stop it.

The acid test here is if you find yourself talking about or doing things that most, if not all, other people would have zero interest in, if even talk about themselves, STOP IT. This goes double for things that are considered outside the mainstream concept of “normalcy”. If in doubt, don’t go there. Leave the “stupid human tricks” and medical horror stories home. 4) Do not act like a sexual predator (or any kind of predator, actually)

Guys, a woman must never, ever feel uncomfortable expressly because you are around. Do not undress her with your eyes when you meet. Monitor the body language you display carefully. An example of what not to do is rubbing your hands together while talking to her. Don’t laugh—I heard about a man doing this very thing, Peter Lorrie style, while talking to a woman on a first date. I’m reasonably sure he must have simply been nervous, but to her it seemed like she was about to be his next “victim”.

5) Be stable

OK, you may have read elsewhere how women can’t stand “predictable” men. What is meant here is that women are bored by men whose lives are replete with one boring routine after another. Yes, women love a man of adventure, and by all means be one.

They also prefer a man who is pretty much the same guy on the second date as he was on the first. It’s also a bonus if he could not go from easy-going jokester to enraged lunatic on the fly, please. Emotional stability is what we are talking about here…get it?

6) Have some integrity when it comes to emotions

Tell a woman what your emotional intentions are. She can handle it. This does not mean that you profess your undying love for her within ten minutes (…or hours…or days) of meeting her. This does mean that you, as Fergie would so eloquently say, shouldn’t “funk with her heart”. If you make her your exclusive girlfriend, do so because you want to. And reassure her you are all hers. Don’t say one thing and feel another.

So as you can see, it doesn’t take an overbuilt gorilla-beast to “protect a woman”, does it? The good news is that any man can encourage a woman to feel that safe, secure feeling. All he has to do is know what she is looking for. And this also means, of course, that there are plenty of NFL lineman types out there who fail miserably at the task. What kind of guy are you?

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Want to hear more? Scot McKay is a dating coach in San Antonio, TX and founder of X & Y Communications, a one-stop-shop for dating resources. He is the author of the new book “Deserve What You Want”, and hosts the popular podcast series “X & Y On The Fly”. He may be reached at scot@xandycommunications.net or on the Web at http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/ or http://www.nottooshort.com/ .

What A Real Woman Wants

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I was once on a Greyhound bus, headed east and we stopped in Arizona. As we started to board, I noticed a latino girl in front of me with the most perfect booty my eyes have ever seen! I was in a trance and the next thing I knew, my hand was squeezing her booty. Well, she turned around and looked at me and all I could say is " I`m sorry, I just could`nt stop myself, your booty looked so good, I just had to touch it!". I don`t reccomend that you fellas try this approach, could get a bad reaction! So, as I was saying, she turned back around and continued to board the bus. As it turned out, it was my lucky day. She was leaving Arizona because her fiance left her standing on the alter! Man! did she turn out to be a winner!
Do you have a story to tell? Post it here and be a player among players. most women just want you to aknowledge their presence. Women like to talk a lot too. a strong women always like stimulating conversation. Women also like to be involved, like make them feel that you are interested in they are saying. Basiclly, all women want your full attention when you are engaging them.
Make no mistake! Women have very good memories. They will ask you about conversations you had with them two years ago and if your recollection bank is broke, this could be trouble. I wish some women out there, can tell me what the fuss is about, if I can`t remember two years ago.
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A true player is always honest about his conquest. For instance, I have so much player juice in me, that I can conquer any female I choose. The women I choose, are lucky indeed. I know what each and every women is looking for. I have had so many ladies that there are names that i can`t remember. Some would call this whoring. Whoring is when you just sleep around and cheating with know meaning. Players go at it at a different angle.
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